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Tuesday, August 12, 2008

love of my life =]

This was a challenge thingy on myspace. Basically, the challenge was to write 10 paragraphs about your top friend (Kevin). The paragraphs had to be at least 6 sentences long and had to stay on the subject of your top friend ,it couldn't trail off to something else. (My paragraphs really were 6 sentences, just depending on where you post them it makes them smaller or shorter...) So I decided to post it here =] enjoy!


I first met Kevin on a Wednesday night. It was the second time I had ever gone to this new church and I didn't have any friends there yet. He came up to me and introduced himself and asked me a few questions about myself. He drew me out of my shell little by little and I started following him around that night. When it was time to go in for worship, he stood by me and said that he was going to stand next to his new best friend. That made me feel really good inside! I remember thinking that he was really cute and that maybe we could go out sometime. But I also thought that he was a little too young for me. How wrong I turned out to be!

I wasn’t able to go on the next Wednesday because I had gone to my old church. The next time I went was on a Sunday and Kevin wasn’t there. I was really sad about not seeing him there but thought that maybe he just didn’t come on Sundays. So I went that Wednesday and was so excited when I saw him. I was even more excited when he asked where I had been! It meant that he had missed me not being there. I hung out with him again that night. I was still pretty shy so I didn’t say much, but we sat together during the service. After it was over, we traded phone numbers and we started texting.

It wasn’t very long after that that he asked me to be his girlfriend (through texting of course). Of course, I said yes! I was so excited! I told my mom about it and since she had never seen him before, she wanted to see a picture of him. So I asked him to send me a picture (I still have it too!) of himself. He said that he would and that he wanted one me as well. Well, being a girl, it took me forever to get a picture that was just right to send him, but I finally got one that I thought was good and sent it to him.

We continued talking, mainly through text, but sometimes I would call him, but we never got to see each other except for at church. I didn’t really like this because we lived right up the street from each other. I would hint at going on dates with him and I even asked one of his close friends to talk to him about it, but it never happened. We kept on in the same way, talking throughout the week and seeing each other just on Wednesdays.

Then one night he said he needed to talk to me. He told me that there was this girl at school that he liked and they had a lot in common. He also said that he could see her every day. That made me mad. I thought to myself, “We could see each other more often too if you just tried!” But instead of telling him that, I told him that I understood and we broke up. The next day however, his friend got us back together. Burt I had started liking that friend, and about a week later, I broke up with him to be his friend. I wasn’t happy in our relationship and I thought that his friend would fill in the missing spaces. I had never broken up with anyone before and I felt terrible. But at that point, there was nothing that I could really do.

About a month later, I broke up with his friend. Like in mine and Kevin’s first relationship, I wasn’t happy with the relationship I was currently in. I also liked more than one guy at the time and wasn’t sure who I wanted to be with. But during this time I talked to Kevin a lot. We went to the movies with his mom and agreed that it had been a date. On March 1st, he asked me to be his girlfriend. He asked me this face to face, which meant a lot to me, because I had always been asked out through texting or on the phone. I said yes, and I’m so glad that I did!

He asked me to go to the Military Ball with him (he was in JROTC). I, of course, said yes. It was at the end of March and I constantly thought about it. When the day finally did come, I was as nervous as a person could be. I had never dressed up for him before and I was wondering what he would think of it. When he saw me, he said “wow” under his breath and he later told me that I looked beautiful. He himself looked very handsome and cute. We took our first pictures together and we left for the ball. I had a wonderful time with him! We danced a lot and talked to his friends and stuff, but the best part was that I got to be with him for a long time that night.

Our relationship was, and is, so much better the second time around! He showed me that he really cared about me. He came to visit me sometimes after school, and he called me every now and then. We talked daily through texting. There are still times when we only see each other once a week, but we go and do stuff now. Mainly we go to the movies, but we have been out to eat a couple times, and sometimes we go to the store with his mom too. (That might not be the most romantic thing to do, but I don’t really care because we get to spend time together)

We’ve been together for a little over five months now, and he continues to show me that he loves me each and every day! He is the best boyfriend I’ve ever had and this is the best relationship I’ve ever been in! I love this boy so so much! He makes me really happy. He can always make me smile and laugh, and he always makes me feel better when I’m down. I get really giddy whenever I’m around him. He’s always saying sweet things to me, and I love the way he kisses me! It feels great to have his lips against mine.

I know that it’s still a long way away, but I hope to one day marry this boy. We still have a lot of growing up to do, individually and in our relationship, but I believe that we will be together forever! I love him, and I know that he loves me too. He really is amazing! I’m so glad that we are together today and I’m so glad that our past relationship didn’t ruin this one that we’re in now. If anything, I think that it made it better, it helped us both to realize what we were doing wrong and improve on those things. I love you Kevin!

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