rant about cooking

ok, so what is it with people dissing women that don't cook? i've been told that if a women can't cook, then she shouldn't be considered a women, and i've been told that if I personally don't cook, then im going to make a lousy house wife. whats up with that?? just because i don't cook (and i don't because i don't like to) doesn't make me any less of a women or a wife. in my opinion, the cooking (and cleaning and all the other housework for that matter) should be left for the husband and wife to decide who does it. personally, i think that when i get married, me and my husband will share that job. no, i don't like to cook, but i also don't think it's fair to make him do it all the time either. i can cook if i want to. and people shouldn't judge others based on stereotypical facts.