exes

how come when something reminds you of an ex, you either welcome it or push it as far away as possible? it also depends on which ex it is...like there's certain songs that remind of certain exes, and i can listen to certain songs and be like "oh this reminds of so-and-so" but with other songs im like "this reminds me of so-and-so, i can't listen to it"

idk, i just find it weird. its not specifically with songs either. it could be anything. words, phrases, gestures, voices, objects...anything. memories are a funny thing aren't they?